See Reasons Why You Should Never Allow Your Children Marry At An Early Age
Many of us get fascinated with the idea of marrying the person we love as early as possible, we believe that way, we would have more time to spend with each other.Although it is quite an appealing idea to get married to the person you love, but marrying young may also bring with itself a set of unthinkable problems and difficulties.
Maturity, which comes with age and experience, is very important for a healthy relationship. Couples who are very young are likely to face problems due to their immaturity and inexperience when it comes to dealing with tough situations.
As a parent or an aspiring one, this article is meant to enlighten you on the dangers of early marriages and the problems faced off by young couples, why you shouldn’t let your child fall a victim. Enjoy;
1. MONEY MATTERS
Young people rarely think of savings, and tend to spend more on things like travelling, shopping, dining out etc. Now, with more needs and less money at their disposal, the probability of fights to occur between the couples gets higher as compared to the ones, who are financially settled through a fair amount of work experience.
Although money matters can strain even the strongest of bonds irrespective of age, but the chances of the financial condition of young couples are not so good. My advice; build your career, save a lot of money, your home will need it.
2. COMMUNICATION ISSUES
Spending more time with each other– the primary reason why most people marry early might not be there anymore after the marriage. As young couples come across the responsibilities of their lives, they tend to work harder to fulfil them, busy routines with work, hectic travelling schedules, pressure of achieving targets and goals, etc., might not really leave any time for any kind of communication and closure. Sometimes it’s worst, it ruins some couples sexual life as they might be too tired at the end of the day.
3. FEELING TRAPPED OR RESTRICTED
This can majorly be an issue with those couples who have separate friend circles or worst when either of the partners is a social figure and the other one is not. At young age, most guys wish to party hard every day with their friends which is no longer possible because they are now engaged, this can cause pressure and tension between the couples.
4. PARENTING ISSUES
The priority of couples, who become parents at very early stage of their life, might shift to the kids, which can create distances between the two partners.
Therefore, decisions pertaining to having children may also become the cause of conflict among young couples. In cases where either of the partners wants to have kids whereas the other one is not ready, can create stress in the relationship.
5. TAKING RESPONSIBILITIES
After finally deciding to have kids, responsibility becomes an issue, especially if both are employed. The question of why the woman should handle both office and household work arises. Most men don’t help their wife with house chores which is totally wrong. Since men are more stronger than women I think they should work more!! “They say one who finds a partner finds a good thing”, true, but at the right time!
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